**to clear it up now, this is not directed at one specific gender**

Your thought on a romantic partner/husband/wife who Watches Porn when their s/o isn't there and does his/her “thing”. Doing this on a regular basis.

I read about this in an article, and learned how many marriages it has ruined. How would you feel/handle it if your partner did this?

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I would find it somewhat depressing if my husband did this. I find porn extremely sleazy and repellent, and it would be a massive turn-off for me if my husband was looking at it all the time. Fortunately, he has no interest in porn, and in fact despises the World wide web altogether.

However, judging by what I read on the marriage and Divorce section on this site, it seems to be something that modern women are generally expected to put up with. A lot of men seem to be more interested in porn than in their wives. i think this is very sad but I don't know what, if anything, can be done about it.

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I think its normal for women and men to watch porn so I don't have a problem with my boyfriend watching it, everyone has to please themselves sexually sometimes if their s/o is away. It would be a problem if he watched it every day and it was an addiction or if it was violent porn but other than that I think its perfectly normal.
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Porn ruined my sister's marriage. Her husband was addicted to it. It was sad.

If it were me, I wouldn't want my husband to be into porn. If I were going away for a while (like on a long trip for several weeks or something), then I wouldn't mind if he used it while I was absent. But in general, I would like to think that I'm good enough for him and he doesn't need to be looking at other women.

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Depends what type of porn I suppose.. If it was all lesbian porn I think I would start to get concerned.. Usually people watch porn because of a lack of excitement in there personnel sex life .. that are they have voyeuristic tendency's.

But if she was paying more attention to porn than me I would probably either say counseling or I’m gone kinda thing.

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There’s serious consequences when one gets addicted to porn. You might check this med / psych website. I know it can destroy marriages. Get professional help before to late.
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If it didn't interfere with the regular relationship, if I wasn't expected to be a porn star in the bedroom, and if I didn't know about it, I wouldn't care.
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You shouldn't need to watch it if you’re in a relationship, you can do the stuff you are watching in real life.
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my opinion is that the sex life has died and the person

needs something to revv it up again.

and its true. it does ruin marriages.

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I think it just means you need to up your game and do more to please your partner. But only if it's a woman whose boyfriend/husband Watches porn. A girl should strive to be more like her man's fantasy. Chances are the girl is already WITH the guy because he’s the man of her dreams so there's really no point in him changing.