Because he’s not focused on you and the loving feelings that intimacy means when two people are in love. Instead they’re in a mind state of desire and lust toward the woman on the screen and if they turn to you for release it's about them and not you. It hurts because you do not want to be used over the fantasy in his mind because these women in porn have done your foreplay for him. You want the passion that you can create for him when he is with you so that he feels that level of excitement and pleasure in your arms. Men take away more than they realize from themselves when the women they are with are turned off emotionally because of their porn. Not all men are into porn so if the one you’re with hurts you enough with it they need to comprehend that your biggest turn on could be in finding someone else that respects that.

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In my case it doesn't. I realize a few things. Men are visual and enjoy being stimulated in that way. Porn is more readily available than at any other time in history. His porn watching has little to do with me and more to do with his need to escape a tiny. And lastly, men will eventually tire of it and move on.

My sense of self worth doesn't come from my husband or his actions. I know who I am, I know who he’s and we make a choice each day to live this life together. Keeping each other in a box isn’t a happy life in my view.

His thoughts and attraction to you are not hampered by his porn viewing just as your thoughts and attraction to him are not hampered by watching a romantic movie. If anything, we're all (both women and men) wishing that our partner's actions were more like the lead character. You want the romance, he wants the nasty ho that’ll do anything in bed. Once you both comprehend these concepts, marriage is WAY more fun…lol

Rest. Take it for what it is.

Good luck :)

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for gods sake people, it isn't the porn that bothers you!!! Porn is NOT a big deal…it becomes a big deal because men don't see that something is lacking in the relationship, (probably emotionally, which for women spills over to our sexual desire), and they use the porn to beat off and we get upset. What we’re upset about is we aren't getting any, and we want it, but we want everything else that comes with what we thought marriage would be. He could stand in the shower and crank one off and you'd still get pissed cuz YOU are missing something he isn't giving you. IT IS NOT THE PORN

the people who aren't bothered by porn have a healthy physical, emotional, spiritual, and sexual relationship, which is why they are able to see it is not a large deal…they’re the ones whos husband has made EVERY aspect of the relationship important, and has made his wife feel as desirable as what he fantasizes about and gets off from in those movies….they are the ones whose husbands didn't use porn/masturbation as a replacement…

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It doest hurt me!!!.. Me and my husband have a great sex life…so, I could care less! Plus he doest want it like its a soap opera!! its once in a great while.. I think porn is funny.. Have you really seen it.. People having sex, its the funniest thing…

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Because he’s giving more attention to the women on the PC than you, are you getting enough sex, if not then there’s an issue, if he just has a high sex drive and you are not ignored in the bedroom then i don't see a problem.

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It doesn't! It doesn't reflex on your sex life at all. If it really bothers you that he Watches maybe watch it with him, then you guys can still have some fun while it's going on, but it's really normal for guys to watch it.
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Maybe he needs the excitement that it provides and something he hasn't seen etc etc etc. Take the bull by the horns and create a fantacy for him right in your own home..Good luck
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Because the women in porn are sexy, yound and atractive and are very good at sex?
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because it feels like you arent good enough to satisfy him and he needs to go else where to find it
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Ahh, Dont worry about it! Boys will be boys….It's just in their blood!
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i admit…it hurts my ego when my husband Watches porn. but i get over it…its just my ego.